Krishna The Man ....... contd
According to Bhagwandas, “If you recognise the distinction between Krishna and Rama, you will appreciate Krishna's nature better. Krishna always smiled at the outset and carried out his task later. For Rama, the deed came first and then the smile. Krishna made women cry. Rama wept for the sake of women. Rama went into the battle only after having a strong cause for it. Krishna first provoked the conflict and then determined its outcome”. Although Krishna was not an idealist like Rama, yet in whichever role or relationship Krishna found himself, he fulfilled it with utmost care and love and compassion. He was a naughty, mischievous, lovable boy to his foster parents in Vrindavan, a fun-loving, full of laughter and life playmate to the cowherds and dairy maidens of Vrindavan – a dutiful, loving son to his real parents, a loving, caring brother to his elder brother Balarama and younger sister Subhadra, an ideal - obedient student to his teachers, an inspiration and hero to his kinsmen, a compassionate, understanding friend to his friends, an ideal, affectionate lover – and a strong opponent worth fighting against for his enemies! Even though he sang and danced with the maidens in Vrindavan (and some may call him flirtatious for that reason) – it just shows that he was a young boy who had great zest for living life in harmony with one and all! Later in his youth, he showed great maturity in his love life and after marriage he acted with great responsibility – even though he married many women – it was in accordance
with the custom in those days - and he was very loving and loyal to each of his wives!
Krishna was full of compassion for one and all. It had been prophesized that he would kill his cousin Shishupal. But Krishna had promised his aunt (Shishupal’s mother) that he would forgive and ignore one hundred mistakes/insults of Shishupal. So Krishna was compassionate even towards those who thought ill of him or wanted/wished him killed – yet – he never flinched or hesitated if it was necessary to kill an opponent! In fact, if an enemy had to be defeated for the larger good, he not only used stratagem – but was ready to even bend the rules to achieve his goals!!! This can be seen in the way Krishna guided the Pandava brothers in the
slaying of the despotic tyrant Emperor Jarasandha or Guru Dronacharya or Duryodhana and his younger brother Duhshashan at the time of the Mahabharata war!!!!
Krishna treated everyone as equals – he was a friend to all. He never lead people – he always guided them. If he had been a leader, he would never have agreed to be the charioteer for Arjuna in the battle of the Mahabharata! When doubts rise in Arjuna’s mind about the wisdom of that great war – where people were fighting against their own kith and kin – and Arjuna wants to lay down his arms – Krishna goes to great lengths to explain to Arjuna as to why he should take up arms and fight. Anyone who has read the Geeta realizes that Arjuna keeps asking the same doubts again and again in different ways! However, Krishna patiently explains again and again, so as to dispel the clouds of doubt that have arisen in Arjuna’s mind. He gives the explanation in various different ways, using different examples and from different standpoints – never getting exasperated or irritated with Arjuna! Only a friend will go to such lengths to satisfy another friend!!! If Krishna had been a teacher he would probably have lost his patience after sometime and ordered Arjuna to just obey him and fight. But Krishna willingly and patiently, repeatedly goes on explaining everything to Arjuna till all doubts are removed from his mind. The entire teachings of the Geeta can be told in a few lines or at most a few pages – but the sheer length of the Geeta is proof of how patiently Krishna clears Arjuna’s doubts – it shows that Krishna was ready to go to any lengths to guide a friend!!!!!!
Krishna has advocated in the Geeta that each person should follow and perform actions in accordance to his/her own innate self nature – rather than following the beaten track or imitating someone. Krishna categorically states in the Geeta that it
is better to die while performing action according to one’s own nature rather than going on living performing actions according to any other nature (thinking that is superior or better than one’s own). He advises living life retaining one’s own individuality! Of course in the Geeta, Krishna also mentions about the four varnas or castes – but what he means to tell is that human beings can largely be categorized into four broad divisions on the basis of their innate natures or individualities or bent of mind. The Brahmin derives his joy from pursuing knowledge, the Kshatriya likes to take risks – adventure, challenge, fighting is in his blood. For the Vaishya – creating money gives his soul happiness and the Shudra gets happiness in serving others. It does not mean that anyone is lesser or superior than the other – each is unique and each gets his/her satisfaction in a different way – each is important for society to run smoothly. The people who originally conceived this categorization had this ideology in mind – but through the passage of time, ignorant people made wrong interpretations and imposed these water-tight compartments on society. During Krishna’s time, society had deteriorated to this water-tight, rigid caste system. The rigidity of the caste system troubled and pained Krishna. He wanted to remove this evil caste system from society and so Krishna talks about it in the Geeta to remove these wrong ideas from the minds of the people.
In a society that preached that sacrifice or suppression of one’s emotions and desires without questioning the authority of the day as the greatest virtue, Krishna had the courage to live life on his own terms and what he considered right (of course – not recklessly – but keeping an eye on the larger and long term welfare of society)! As he stated in the Geeta Krishna was a staunch believer in performing action in accordance to one’s inherent nature …. One’s individuality! Thus, as he has no stake in the great war, he himself refused to take up arms during the Mahabharata war. Yet he agreed to be the charioteer to Arjuna while his army was fighting on behalf of the opposing side – the Kauravas. As if this is not enough – he coaxes Arjuna to take up arms (when Arjuna wants to lay down arms) – because Krishna knows that Arjuna is basically a Kshatriya by nature! Due to a sudden rush of love and attachment towards his kith and kin (against whom he is preparing to wage a war) Arjuna wants to give up his arms; but Krishna knows that later on Arjuna will regret his decision and repent not fighting the war for his rights and feel miserable! This was the uniqueness of Krishna and his character! He just performed his actions according to what he felt was the right thing to do under the existing circumstances. He was not concerned whether what he did conformed to the general opinion or the existing norms of society (socially or politically)
existing at that time. If his actions were in accordance to accepted norms in society – it was not out of fear of punishment or expectance of reward! He did not go out of his way to impress or charm or influence others around him. However his actions were always so appropriate that people would get impressed by him and his ways – they (men and women) were charmed by his behaviour and thus they rather changed to conform to his way of thinking and his advice. They listened to him attentively and sought his advice because he gave it with such pure love …. They knew he had no ulterior or self motives to fulfill when he advised them – his advice was for the larger good of one and all and the betterment of society at large! He did not go out of his way to make either friends or foes …. He approached everyone with a smile and love and peace in his heart … so that his staunchest enemies also had respect for him in their hearts! And his friends of course had only devotion for him!
Krishna was known to be 64 kala sampoorna – meaning he had unparalled knowledge and mastery over all the sixty-four Sciences and Arts of living! Also it is difficult for normal human beings to understand the contradictions in Krishna’s nature. He was an enigma! He played the flute and danced with the gopis with abandon, and with the same ease he fought and slayed the demons and monsters that his uncle Kamsa sent to Gokul and Vrindavan to slay him! He responded with great love in his heart to the overtures of the fair maidens of his time and yet the softness of his heart did not deter him from fighting on the battlefield and killing many an enemy with his Sudarshan Chakra. The same Krishna plays pranks with his playmates in Vrindavan and then rises to the occasion to declare the grave, profound truths of the Geeta to Arjuna. The butter-thief of Vrindavan is also a great yogi! It is incomprehensible to ordinary mortals as to how one human being could be a master in all the sixty-four fields of knowledge. He was physically beautiful, mentally and emotionally he had the perfect balance of the masculine and feminine qualities within him – he just was perfect in every way! So, when people cannot understand someone – either they berate that person and crush him to dust – or – they deify that person ……. And in the case of Krishna he was deified by the majority of the people! So he was treated as God incarnate – the Sampoorna Purusha!
According to me Krishna’s life was intended to give a perennial message to the world. He sought nothing for himself. He kept nothing for himself. He gave away everything to the people. He slayed his maternal uncle, Kamsa. He installed Kamsa's father, Ugrasena, on the throne. He did not covet the kingdom. He
befriended the Pandavas, defeated the Kauravas, and crowned Dharmaja as the emperor. He did not make himself king. He was a king without a crown. He was the king of kings. He had no kingdom of his own. But he ruled over the hearts of the millions. Yet at the Rajsuya Yagna performed by Yudhistra he volunteered to pick up the dirty plates of the guests after they had taken their meals!!!!! It is this profound truth that made people deify Krishna!!!!!!!!
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Above all these, He is God who, in his own transcendental nature, is the Lord of lords, the father and mother of all creation, the very Soul of all that exists. He is the substratum of all existence. He is the Reality, immortal, eternal, infinite and absolute. He is not only immortal but He is Immortality Itself.
If we are true to ourselves, we have will have to acknowledge that all the contradictions in Krishna’ personality is in each one of us! We are constantly in a state of tussle with ourselves …. One part of our personality telling us to conform to society and its rules and regulations and the other part telling us to act according to our intrinsic nature …. We can be naughty and mischievous at times and at times we behave with great responsibility …… at times we love with such softness …. We are so emotional and sentimental and yet at times we behave with such hardheartedness if such an occasion arises it that surprises even our own self!!!! Every moment we face the same dilemmas that Krishna faced …… but he had the courage to act appropriately at each occasion without thought of reward or fear of reprimand. There was a great harmony … a beautiful synthesis in his contradictions …… because whatever he did ……. He was at Peace …… because he performed actions not guided by his ego … rather he acted out of complete egolessness – without any self motive! Thus at every step one can identify with Krishna and his actions! Krishna means one who attracts!!!!!!!! It is said that "Karshathi-ithi Krishna -- Because he attracts, he is Krishna." Krishna has the supreme power of attraction. By his words, his sport, his music, and all his actions he attracts all people. This power of attraction is present in everyone. Hence, everyone has the potential to be Krishna!!!!!!!!! But for that first we have to develop the strength of character that Krishna possessed and to become completely bereft of EGO ……. For that we have to start by first understanding our “I” and then surrendering our “I” in front to our “I”. But there is hope ……for each one of us ……. Because the example of Krishna is in front of us!!!!!!!!!
Dr. Poonam Mehra